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By Tabatha Sarco<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ask any fraternity man or sorority woman who their \u201cperson\u201d is, and they can tell you instantly. It\u2019s the one person that they feel is responsible for their membership in their organization. Whether it\u2019s the person that continuously called, texted, and Facebook crept you until you came to an event, or the person that connected with you over free hamburgers, it\u2019s the one person that you believe helped sell you on this thing we call fraternity. For me, it was Lindsey. Lindsey and I shared a few classes together. It was something about the way that her face lit up when she talked about her sorority, or how happy she was when I saw her with sisters\u2026 Or maybe it was that when I talked to Lindsey, she would tell me about how much I would be an asset to the sorority, instead of trying to sell the sorority to me. Whatever it was, I wanted to be a part of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you begin the school year and delve into the crazy time of recruitment, think about your person. Think about the guy that really connected with you and made you seriously consider what it would be like to be a member of Phi Delta Theta. Then ask yourself what you need to do to become someone else\u2019s \u201cperson.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So often, we focus on selling ourselves based on our accomplishments from the past year- Greek Week champ, All Sing winner, Intramural champ, and the amount of money we\u2019ve raised for our philanthropy. Don\u2019t get me wrong- those are big wins! Often though, we forget why the men are really walking through our doors. Men are walking through our door looking for brotherhood. They\u2019re looking for an opportunity to get involved on campus. They\u2019re looking to become a part of something bigger than themselves. They\u2019re looking for a place that they can walk into and feel comfortable; a place to call home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My advice to you is that instead of spitting out random facts about your organization, take a little extra time to share your story. Why did you join Phi Delta Theta, and what have you gained from your experience thus far? Likewise, be a listening ear and find out what the men that you\u2019re talking to are looking for in a fraternity. Have high expectations in the quality of men that you\u2019re looking for, but also ensure that you\u2019re living up to those expectations. Think about your cardinal principles of friendship, sound learning, and rectitude, and share what striving to live those daily means to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if you do these things, you may just become someone\u2019s \u201cperson.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Tabatha Sarco is currently the Assistant Director of Student Involvement of Lynchburg College, located in Virginia. Before coming to LC, Tabatha completed her Masters in College Student Personnel at Bowling Green State University, where she advised the Interfraternity Council. Tabatha is a 2006 graduate of Austin Peay State University, which she earned her degree in Psychology and Leadership Studies. She is a member of Alpha Delta Pi Sorority.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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